Koj Tsis Yog Niam Txiv Tus Tsiaj Hmoov Zoo Yog Koj Tus Tsiaj Tsis Zoo Li Cov Me Nyuam

2024 Tus sau: Daisy Haig | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:09

Cov dev thiab menyuam yaus yog cov ntawv txais tos, tab sis tsis yog tias koj tau txais ib tus dev uas tsis yog tus neeg nyiam kev lom zem li pint. Nws tuaj yeem ua rau poob ntsej muag yog tias koj tus dev ua yeeb yam nyob ib puag ncig cov menyuam yaus, thiab nyob ntawm qhov siv ntawm cov zaub, nws tuaj yeem yog qhov txaus ntshai heev.

Colleen Pelar, tus sau phau ntawv “Nyob Nrog Menyuam thiab dev… Tsis Ua Rau Koj Lub Siab Poob,” taw qhia tias tus dev uas “zoo” nrog menyuam tsis zoo li tus dev uas “zoo” nrog menyuam. Tsuas zam kev sib cuam tshuam nrog menyuam yaus tuaj yeem yooj yim tig mus rau qhov kev hloov pauv yog tias tus dev raug thawb dhau ntawm nws qhov chaw xis.

Ua niam txiv ua tsiaj rau tus dev uas tsis nyiam cov menyuam yaus txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum ceev faj thiab paub kom txhua tus neeg muaj kev nyab xeeb txog thaum koj tuaj yeem ua kev cob qhia los hloov koj txoj kev xav ntawm dev.

Vim li cas koj tus dev yuav tsis nyiam menyuam yaus

Koj tus dev puas xav zam rau cov neeg zoo? Muaj txoj hmoo nws vim yog:

• Ib tug tsis muaj ntawm socialization: Yog tias koj tus dev tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov menyuam thaum lub sijhawm ua menyuam dev, lawv yuav zoo li ntshai lossis nyuaj rau nws. Kev sib raug zoo yog kauj ruam kev cob qhia dev tseem ceeb uas nthuav tawm cov me nyuam mus rau qhov pom tshiab, lub suab thiab kev paub ntawm lub suab maj los pab lawv muaj kev ntseeg siab thiab txo kev ntshai.

• Tau muaj xwm txheej tshwm sim: Tej zaum koj tus dev tau mob siab rau qhov tsis muaj qhov zoo siab ntawm kev hnav ris tsho nrog tus qhua me me, thiab tam sim no nws sib npaug rau cov neeg hauv qab 3 feet siab nrog cov neeg tsis xis. Kev ua si uas zoo rau peb, xws li cia tus menyuam nce saum ib tus dev lossis rov ua nws tus pob txha mus, yuav ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab rau cov dev thiab yuav ua rau koj tus dev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog menyuam yaus.
• Kev coj tsis tus: Cov menyuam yaus qw, khiav, ncaug, rub, khawm thiab zes, thiab tus cwj pwm ntawd tuaj yeem sib ntau sib txawv rau qee tus dev. Pelar taw qhia tias tsis muaj leej twg nyiam txhua tus neeg. “Yuav muaj ib co neeg koj tus dev tsis nias nrog; tus ntawd yog lub neej xwb,”nws hais. "Peb ntshai txhua yam uas peb pom tias tsis muaj tseeb, thiab cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem sau cov npe ntawd."

Dab tsi Ua Rau Me Nyuam Yuam Kev ntxhov siab zoo li?

Kev tsis xis nyob Canine tsis yog ib txwm muaj khaus thiab hnoos. (Txawm hais tias, yog tias koj tus dev muaj cov hom kev hloov nyob ib ncig ntawm tib neeg, hluas lossis laus, hu rau tus kws qhia tsim nyog lossis tus kws kho tsiaj).

Tus dev thawj qhov kev ntxhov siab thiab ntshai yuav dhau txoj kev ceeb toom, tshwj tsis yog koj mob siab nrhiav lawv, vim li cas tib neeg thiaj li yuav hais "dev tsis hma tsis ceeb toom."

Cov paib feem ntau nyob ntawd, tab sis cov niam txiv tsiaj yug yuav tsum tuaj yeem tuaj tos lawv thiaj li yog tus kws txhais lus thiab tawm tswv yim rau lawv tus dev.

Tus dev uas tsis xis nyob nrog menyuam yaus thiab xaiv kev zam yuav zam kev thaum mus ze lossis sim khiav nkaum thaum menyuam nkag los ze. Hmoov tsis zoo, menyuam feem ntau tsis paub thaum dev tsis xav ntsib lawv, thiab lawv sim ua raws nws.

Tus dev uas txhawj xeeb txog qhov ze ntawm cov menyuam yaus yuav khaws nws tus Tsov tus tw thiab txhaws nws lub pob ntseg. Nws yuav nchuav zoo li nws tseem ntub, yaim nws daim di ncauj los yog lub qhov ncauj ib zaug dua-ib yam li saj cov pa uas nquag ua, lossis tseem hnov ntsiag to.

Cov dev uas siv cov tswv yim zoo los ua kom lawv nyob deb ntawm menyuam, zoo li txhav nrov los yog nrov nrov, tsis txhob lees paub tias lawv xav li cas. Txawm li cas los xij, cov dev ua qauv qhia no yuav cycled los ntawm subtler "thov nyob deb" tus cwj pwm thiab tau rub tawm lawv cov lus los sim tswj kom deb.

Dab Tsi Tsis Kam Ua Thaum Koj Tus dev Qhia Kev Nyuaj Siab

Zoo li feem ntau tus cwj pwm kev sib tw, tsis quav ntsej koj cov dev tsis xis nyob nrog menyuam yuav tsis ua rau nws ploj mus. Nws yog qhov phom sij txaus ntshai txhua lub sijhawm koj cuam tshuam nrog kev rov qab ua haujlwm, tab sis tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum hais txog menyuam yaus. Hmoov tsis zoo, koj tus dev yuav tsis loj hlob ntawm qhov nws tsis xis nyob ib puag ncig cov menyuam. Yog tsis kho, yeej muaj txoj hmoo nws yuav ua rau mob hnyav ntxiv.

Ib yam li ntawd, sim ua kom koj tus dev “fim nws cov kev ntshai” tuaj yeem ua rov qab. Pelar ceeb toom tiv thaiv kom muab koj tus dev tso rau ib qho xwm txheej uas nws tsis tuaj yeem txav deb thaum nws txhawj xeeb, xws li tuav koj tus dev kom menyuam yaus tuaj yeem kwv nws. Yuam koj tus dev los puag nrog menyuam thaum ze li ntawd yuav pab tsis tau nws txaus siab. Tej zaum qhov tseeb yuav ua rau nws kom tshem nws cov lus ceeb toom yog tias nws xav tias nws tsis muaj lwm txoj kev xaiv.

Thawj kauj ruam Yog tias koj tus dev tsis nyiam cov menyuam yaus

Yog tias koj pom tias koj tus dev tseem taw qhia tias nws tsis xis nyob hauv kev sib ntsib nrog menyuam yaus, qhov kev nyab xeeb tshaj plaws yog los tswj cov xwm txheej thiab tshem nws tawm. Tiv thaiv cov menyuam yaus kom khiav tawm ntawm koj tus dev mus hais nyob zoo, thiab ib txwm muaj kev tiv thaiv kev nyab xeeb thaum nyob ib puag ncig cov menyuam yaus hauv zej zog.

Koj tuaj yeem pib pauv koj tus dev qhov kev nkag siab ntawm cov menyuam yaus nrog kev kawm theem pib uas ua rau muaj kev sib txuas ntawm lawv thiab tej yam koj tus dev nyiam, xws li kev coj ua dev. Txhua lub sijhawm koj tus dev ua rau menyuam nyob deb, muab nws siab rau tus dev ua ntev npaum li tus menyuam pom.

Thaum tus me nyuam ploj mus lawm, tsum tsis txhob muab cov khoom zoo. Hauv lub sijhawm, koj tus dev yuav pom cov menyuam yaus thiab tam sim ntawd saib koj los sau qhov kev kho, uas txhais tau tias nws tau pib koom nrog qee yam uas feem ntau ua rau nws tsis xis nyob (menyuam) nrog qee yam zoo kawg nkaus (kho).

Dev thiab menyuam: Muaj Kev Nyab Xeeb Ua Ntej

Pab koj tus dev kom xis nyob ib puag ncig cov menyuam yaus yog txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb. Yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog qhov kev siv ntawm koj cov dev, txoj kev nyab xeeb tshaj plaws yog ua haujlwm nrog tus kws qhia txog tus dev zoo uas tuaj yeem tsim cov txheej txheem kev cob qhia uas yuav ua raws theem uas yuav pab koj tus dev kawm kom pom kev lom zem hauv cov me.

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