Yuav Ua Dab Tsi Thaum Koj Tus Dev Khiav Mus Ntawm Koj

2024 Tus sau: Daisy Haig | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:09

Nws tuaj yeem tshwm sim nrawm. Ib feeb, koj yog ntawm koj txoj kev taug kev thaum yav tsaus ntuj, thiab dheev, koj tus dev khiav tawm tom qab tus nas ncuav. Los yog saib tsam koj tawm sab nraum lub qhov rooj qhib, tsuas yog qhov no ib zaug, thiab koj tus tub kawm yuav maj mam khiav hauv lub eeb tom qab lub tsheb thauj khoom.

Nws yog txhua tus tsiaj cov niam txiv npau suav phem tshaj plaws, thiab hauv lub sijhawm no, nws tuaj yeem tsis tuaj yeem paub tias yuav ua licas. Peb nrog cov lus qhia no los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij, koj yuav tsum paub xyov yuav ua licas thaum lub sijhawm kom koj tus dev rov zoo thiab muaj suab.

Thawj Yam Thawj: Tsis txhob caum

Nws yuav tawm tsam txhua qhov kev xav uas koj muaj, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob caum tus dev khiav tawm. Nrog rau qee qhov kev zam, feem ntau ntawm peb tsis tuaj yeem nrau peb plaub tus phooj ywg. Yog tias koj tus aub ntshai, koj yuav tsis ntes nws, thiab yog nws xav tias nws ua si, koj tsuas yog ua kom tsis zoo. Ellen Lindell, kws ua yeeb yam hais txog tsiaj txhu hauv tsev kawm ntawv Connecticut hais tias, “Kev nrhiav tus neeg txhoj puab yeej tsis yog ib qho zoo.

Hloov chaw, Dr. Lindell pom zoo kom tig qhov kev ua si ntawm caum kom ib puag ncig thiab pov koj tus dev kom khiav tom qab koj. Nws hais tias "Tau txais tus dev caum koj tuaj yeem lom zem rau tus dev," nws hais. "Sim khiav nrog khoom ua si lossis kho khoom, lossis tseem mus rau hauv koj lub tsheb yog tias koj tus dev nyiam taug kev."

Ua twj ywm thiab zoo thaum koj tus dev khiav mus

Ib zaug ntxiv, koj yuav tsum ua haujlwm tawm tsam koj qhov kev xav. Txawm hais tias koj yuav xav qw thiab qw rau koj tus dev, tiv thaiv qhov kev yaum thiab sim ua kom lub taub hau txias. Koj tsis tas xav ntxiv rau kev zoo siab lossis ntshai koj tus dev tau ntsib lossis ua rau nws xav tias koj npau taws.

Melanie Cerone, ib tug kws qhia txuj ci dev raws xeev Pennsylvania tau hais tias "Nws yog qhov tsis zoo, tab sis koj xav kom nyob ntsiag to thiab tsis txhob ntshai." “Tsis txhob qw lossis qw rau tus dev. Hu nws ntawm koj lub suab zoo siab thiab hnia lub suab luag ntxhi thaum koj tig, zoo li koj mus rau lwm sab nraud."

Yog tias koj tus dev ntshai nws yuav muaj teeb meem thaum nws rov qab los, nws tsis tshua muaj siab nrawm nrawm dua, yog li tam sim no yog lub sijhawm los rhuav tshem koj qhov zoo tshaj plaws, "Leej twg yog tus tub zoo ?!"

Siv Koj Cov Lus Nco

Qhov zoo, ntev ua ntej koj muaj tus dev khiav tawm, koj yuav tau cob qhia koj tus tub kawm los teb cov lus thaum muaj xwm ceev. Qhov no yog cov lus hais los yog kab lus uas cues nws tam sim ntawd rov qab rau koj sab, tsis hais qhov stimuli nyob ib puag ncig nws. Txawm hais tias kev qhia cov lus nco qab yog cov txheej txheem koom nrog, nws tsim nyog rau lub sijhawm, thiab muaj ob peb qhov tsis pub lwm tus paub.

Cerone hais tias, "Thaum dev teb cov lus lawv nco qab, koj muab nuj nqi nrov rau lawv." “Koj yuav tsum ua nws tsim nyog lawv ua qhov koj xav ua. Siv cov khoom noj muaj txiaj ntsig zoo uas koj tus dev ua tsis tau lwm lub sijhawm. Yog tias nws paub qee yam zoo heev yuav tshwm sim thaum nws teb, xws li nqaij npuas kib, nws yuav xaiv koj hla qhov nws tabtom caum."

Thaum xaiv cov lus rov qab, mus nrog ib yam dab tsi luv thiab snappy uas koj tsis tshua hais hauv kev sib tham txhua hnub, qhia Cerone. Piv txwv hais tias, "Tuaj," piv txwv, ib yam dhau ntawm lo lus thiab yuav plam qhov kev txiav nrawm. "Nqaij npuas kib," txawm li cas los xij, tej zaum yuav yog ib tus neeg sib cav zoo-nws tsis zoo yuav hnav, thiab koj tus dev twb yuav txuas nws nrog tej yam qab.

Nres Cov Nqis Tes Ua

Muaj koj tus dev khiav rov qab rau koj yog qhov zoo tagnrho. Tab sis qhov no xav kom nws tsum tsum thiab reroute, uas tuaj yeem nyuaj. Rau txoj kev yooj yim, xav qhia nws kom nres thiab pw. Dr. Lindell hais tias, "Ib qho kev txawj ntse tshaj plaws los qhia yog kev pw nrawm." "Nws yooj yim dua rau tus dev los poob qis dua tig mus nrog lwm tus neeg."

Qhov tseeb, nws yuav pab ua rau txhua tus neeg mus rau theem hauv av. Dr. Lindell pom zoo kom zaum nrawm ntawm koj tus kheej, tom qab ntawd ua txuj nrog khoom ua si kom ntxias koj tus dev tuaj kos khoom.

Tiv Thaiv Yav Tom Ntej Ua Haujlwm

Raws li lawv hais, ooj tiv thaiv zoo dua li qhov phaus kho. Txawm nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv txhua qhov xwm txheej ceev, muaj qee cov kauj ruam koj tuaj yeem ua kom nws tsawg dua uas koj tus dev khiav tawm.

Cerone hais tias, tshwj tsis yog koj muaj lub pob zeb hais txog lub pob zeb, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob muaj koj tus dev tawm mus sab hauv ib qho chaw twg uas tsis tau khoo. Ua si rau cov chaw ua si uas muaj dev yog tias muaj ib lub caij nyoog uas koj BFF yuav xaiv tus nas mab vim koj.

Nws tseem ceeb heev kom paub koj tus dev thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj kom paub tseeb tias koj lub laj kab zoo thiab koj lub qhov rooj kaw nruj. Tib yam mus rau cov dev uas tseem tsis tau sib zog lossis neutered-tsis txawm hais tias nqaij npuas kib yuav txwv lawv kom tsis txhob sim ntsib nrog tus khub.

Raws li ib txwm muaj, xyuas kom meej tias koj tus dev tus lej cim npe thiab microchip hloov tshiab. Yog tias, qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo tshaj plaws, nws pheej dhia, koj xav kom nws tuaj yeem mus tsev sai thiab sai li sai tau.

Los ntawm Monica Weymouth