Las Mees Kev Coj Cwj Pwm Thiab Saib Lawv Tus Muam Poob Qab - Paj Huam Txij Nkawm

2024 Tus sau: Daisy Haig | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:09

Rov xyuas dua thaum lub Ib Hlis 4, 2016

Kuv tus ntxhais thiab kuv ua tiav nrog pluas tshais, tab sis peb tseem zaum ntawm rooj noj mov. Peb tsis tuaj yeem sawv mus vim tias Maverick nyob hauv nws lub qhov txhab thiab nws tawv nqaij. Yog tias peb tawm ntawm lub rooj mus, nws yuav pom peb. Yog tias nws pom peb, nws yuav rau nqi zog rau kev xyoob ntoo. Yog hais tias peb muab nqi zog rau nws rau barking hnub no, nws yuav kawm tawv rau peb thaum nws yog cais los ntawm peb. Yog tias nws paub kawm xyoob ntoo rau lub hom phiaj no, nws yuav kawm nyeem tawv ntoo thaum nws xav nrog peb sib tham. Kuv tsis xav kom muaj li ntawd.

Kuv lub neej muaj kev ntxhov siab txaus. Kuv tsis xav kom muaj ib tug dev tawv muag rau kuv txhua hnub. Kuv txaus siab rau nws thaum kuv tus dev tau xyoob ntoo thaum lub hauv paus txhawm rau txhawm rau txhawm rau, tab sis tsis tu ncua tawv nqaij ua rau kuv cov ntshav siab sawv tuaj. Nws tseem yog cov neeg tsis txaus siab ib txwm muaj.

Tsim thiab txhawb kev mloog lus thiab coj tus cwj pwm tsis ncaj hauv koj tus dev laus pib nrog qhov koj ua hauv menyuam dev. Nov yog cov tswvyim sib paub vim peb paub tias qhov peb qhia peb cov menyuam cuam tshuam lawv tus cwj pwm coj ua neeg laus. Nws tseem yooj yim dua rau kev tiv thaiv tus cwj pwm tshaj li kho nws thaum nws tau dhau los ua teeb meem.

Ntau tus cwj pwm tsuas tuaj yeem raug kho los ntawm tsis quav ntsej lawv. Cov no yog hu ua saib nrhiav tus cwj pwm. Cov tswv yim nrhiav cwj pwm suav nrog kev dhia, thau tawv, thawb, tawm tsam, nyiag, thiab paw. Peb tau tham txog kev dhia hauv blog dhau los.

(Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav cov ntawv qhia ntawm kev dhia ntawm no.)

Cov tswv dev feem ntau ib txwm ua tsis tau zoo (muab nqi zog) coj tus cwj pwm no los ntawm kev cuam tshuam nrog tus aub. Txhua qhov kev saib xyuas tuaj yeem raug suav tias yog qhov khoom plig, txawm tias qw.

Tus dev uas tsis txaus siab uas tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab kev teeb tsa hauv lub chaw ib puag ncig zoo rau kev saib xyuas cov cwj pwm kom txo lawv cov kev ntxhov siab. Cov dev uas coj kev mus nrhiav kev coj cwj pwm vim muaj kev ntxhov siab feem ntau xav tau kev pab los ntawm kws tshaj lij kom tau txais kev zoo dua. Yog tias koj xav tias koj tus dev ntxhov siab, tham nrog tus kws kho tsiaj.

Kev saib xyuas tus cwj pwm feem ntau tuaj yeem tshem tawm (tshem tawm) los ntawm kev tsis quav ntsej tus menyuam dev. Ua ntej koj pib sim tso tawm tus cwj pwm los ntawm kev tshem tawm koj txoj kev mloog, koj yuav tsum nkag siab lub ntsiab lus ntawm "kev saib xyuas" rau peb lub hom phiaj. Ib qho ntxiv, koj yuav tsum nkag siab txog qhov "rhuav tshem."

Mloog zoo, rau peb lub hom phiaj, txhais tau tias yog muaj kev sib koom tes nrog tus dev, txawm tias dhau ntawm lub cev lus. Hauv lwm lo lus, yog tias koj tsis quav ntsej koj tus dev, koj yuav tsis ua ntsej muag, tig mus rau koj tus dev, qw "tsis tau!", Thawb nws tawm ntawm koj, lossis hais lwm yam rau nws. Koj yuav tsum nyob ntsiag to thiab txav deb ntawm nws.

Tom ntej no, cov kev tu ncua tawg. Lub caij nyoog tu noob teeb meem tshwm sim thaum uas yav dhau los ua tus cwj pwm zoo tam sim ntawd tsis tau txais nqi zog. Ib yam li lub npe cuam tshuam, tus cwj pwm yauv yauv tawg. Qhov no tuaj yeem txhais tau tias nce ntau zuj zus, ntau zaus, lossis ob qho tib si, dhau ntawm thawj qhov siv zog thiab / lossis zaus.

Daim kawg ntawm kev ua si yog muab nqi zog rau tus dev thaum nws ua kom pom tus cwj pwm zoo. Hauv Maverick qhov teeb meem, peb tau ua tus kws tsim khoom xyoob. Thaum Maverick tseem yau me ntsis thiab peb tau nyob hauv nruab nrab ntawm lub tsev sab heev, peb tau them ntau xim rau nws cov tawv ntoo. Thaum nws tsoo nws, peb txhua tus tau dhia mus coj nws tawm seb nws puas xoob hauv tsev nrog peb lossis hauv nws qhov quav. Peb tsis xav kom tsis quav ntsej cov pob zeb ntawd vim peb xav kom tau txais nws lub tsev txoj cai xwb. Kuv paub tias qhov no yuav yog qhov teebmeem rau peb tom qab. Txawm li cas los xij, Kuv kuj paub tias peb tuaj yeem tua cov tawv ntoo tom qab.

Lub sijhawm tau hloov pauv thiab peb xav kom cov laj kab nres. Tam sim no, thaum tus menyuam dev tawv ncauj, peb tsis quav ntsej nws. Peb tsis txhob cia nws pom peb txhua lub sijhawm txawm tias nws txhais tau tias peb tau daig hauv ib chav twg txog thaum nws nyob ntsiag to. Ua ntej peb pib tsis quav ntsej Maverick, Kuv tau sim nrhiav ib tus qauv rau cov pob zeb tawv ntoo. Ib qho lag luam yog ib ntu ntawm tawv ntoo. Feem ntau cov dev muaj qauv. Kev nkag siab txog kuv tus menyuam dev tus qauv yuav pab kuv nkag siab thaum kuv tuaj yeem them rau (khoom plig) nws.

Nyob rau hauv Maverick qhov teeb meem, nws tau xyoob ntoo kwv yees li peb daim tawv thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav siv sijhawm li 3-5 fiab. Kuv paub tias kuv tsis tuaj yeem tos txais nws qhov kev npau taws kom ncav sijhawm kom muab nqi zog rau nws li 3 vib nas this. Yog tias kuv taug kev nkag mus rau hauv chav cia li zoo li nws tau tawv ntoo (yog tias nws coj kuv 4 feeb kom nkag mus hauv chav tsev), Kuv yuav muaj nqi zog rau cov tawv ntoo. Yog li, Kuv paub tias kuv ib leeg yuav tsum tau tos ntev li 5 vib nas this (nws lub sijhawm ntev tshaj plaws), lossis kuv yuav tsum siv tus nias rau cim nws tus cwj pwm kom kuv tuaj yeem txhim kho kuv lub sijhawm. Kuv txiav txim siab tos nws. Kuv tau tos kom txog thaum Maverick tau txias siab li 10 vib nas this, dhau ob zaug nws qhov kev ncua tawm, ua ntej siv kuv lub nias. Kuv nias thiab ces taws rau nws crate. Kuv txawb lub qhov rooj crate qhib nrog ntau qhuas rau nws tus cwj pwm zoo. Ntawm ob peb lub asthiv dhau los, peb tau pom kev txo qis ntawm cov tawv ntoo, tab sis nws tseem tsis tau tua. Ib pliag muaj, nws tau chwv thiab mus raws li tus cwj pwm underwent tawg ntho. Peb yuav tsum ua siab ntev tiag tiag.

Txij tam sim no, tom qab txhua qhov kev cuam tshuam nrog koj tus menyuam dev, nug koj tus kheej, "Kuv tau nqi zog dabtsi xwb?" Cov lus teb yuav tsum ib txwm yog, "qhov xav tau tus cwj pwm."

Piv txwv li, koj tus menyuam dev mus ze koj thiab thawb koj txhais tes. Nyob rau hauv teb, koj tsiaj nws. Koj muab nqi zog dab tsi rau koj? Koj muab nqi zog rau koj tus menyuam dev ua thawb koj txhais tes nrog nws lub qhov ntswg. Yog tias koj nyiam tus cwj pwm ntawd, zoo kawg! Yog tias koj tsis nyiam nws, tsis txhob muab nqe zog rau nws. Cov kauj ruam me me ntxiv tom ntej no yuav tsim kom muaj kev zoo siab, kev sib raug zoo ntawm koj thiab koj tus menyuam dev.

Dr. Lisa Radosta