Qhia Cov Me Nyuam Ua Si Rau Tsiaj

2024 Tus sau: Daisy Haig | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:09

Yuav ua li cas cia cov tsiaj paub tias tus menyuam mos liab yog phooj ywg, tsis yog tus neeg siv ntxeem ntxiag

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Kev xav tsis thoob yuav ua li cas tuaj yeem tshwm sim thaum cov tsiaj ntsib menyuam mos thawj zaug. Kuv tus txiv neej Jack Russell terrier tau zoo nrog kuv tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv - txog thaum kuv tau tos tus me nyuam, hais tias Stephanie LaFarge, PhD, tus thawj coj ntawm kev sab laj nrog American Society rau kev tiv thaiv kev lim hiam rau tsiaj (ASPCA).

Nws hais tias "Pom tus me nyuam txav mus los ntawm huab cua ua rau tus dev tawm ua ntej," nws hais. "Thiab ntawm no nws tuaj, ya hla hauv chav sim mus txeeb nws daim pawm hauv nws cov hniav."

Txhua tus tos ntsoov yuav ua tus xeeb ntxwv thawj zaug. Txhua tus neeg, uas yog, tshwj tsis yog unsuspecting Fido. LeFarge hais tias "Koj hlub koj cov xeeb ntxwv, thiab koj hlub koj cov tsiaj."

"Cov tswv yim dag tau txais cov tsiaj no los sib hlub." Tsiaj - thiab menyuam yaus, ib yam nkaus - tuaj yeem tsis paub. Yog li, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los ua cov phiaj xwm rau thawj cov lus qhia nrog ceev faj kom spare.

Paub Dab Tsi Ua Rau Koj Daim Pib Kov Tsiaj

"Coj kev ntsuam xyuas ncaj ncees ntawm koj tus tsiaj tus cwj pwm," hais tias Harrison Forbes, tus tswv ntawm lub Pet Talk xov tooj cua qhia thiab Yuav Ua Li Cas Tiv Thaiv Kom Tsis Muaj Kab Xub DVD. "Qee tus dev tsis nyiam menyuam yaus. Yog tias koj lub ntsws thiab ua qaj ntawm lawv ntawm lub tiaj ua si, lossis ua yeebyam lossis qias neeg, koj yuav tsum maj mam nqa mus."

Nrog rau kev npau taws, xav txog lub hnub nyoog ntawm koj tus tsiaj. Cov menyuam dev thiab menyuam yaus nyiam thawb tawm ntawm phab ntsa. Lawv nquag nquag, playfully ntxhib, thiab feem ntau yuav nqaws nrog cov hniav zoo li qub. Koj yuav cia siab tias cov neeg laus cov tsiaj yuav tsum tau sib raug zoo thiab paub zoo dua li tom; tab sis, uas tsis tas li rooj plaub. Cov tsiaj hnub nyoog loj dua yuav nyob nrog kev mob caj dab, lossis ib feem dig muag lossis lag ntseg es lawv tsis tuaj yeem nyeem cov cim qhia tib neeg.

Nrog koj cov xeeb ntxwv xeeb ntxwv tham txog lawv qhov kev cia siab rau thawj zaug. Lawv yuav cia siab tias koj yuav ncaws koj tus miv lossis dev thaum tuaj xyuas, thaum koj tab tom npaj yuav cia nws pw hauv pob 'N Play. Sib tham qhov tsim nyog ntawm kev sib cuag ntawm cov tsiaj thiab menyuam yaus kom txhua tus neeg xis nyob. Yog tias ib tug neeg tsis yog, tus tsiaj yuav pom tau lub zog siab. “Nws tuaj yeem ua rau lawv tsis txaus ntseeg thiab muaj kev tiv thaiv,” piav qhia Forbes.

Teeb tsa chaw pw hav zoov nyob rau hauv qhov chaw nyob sab nraum zoov nrog koj txhua tus tsiaj nyiam txhua yam - khoom noj, dej, khoom ua si - thiab qhov chaw pw uas nws tsis tuaj yeem thab. Forbes hais tias "dev thiab miv zoo li nkawd lub chaw ntsiag to ib yam li tib neeg ua," Forbes hais. Thiab yog tias tus me nyuam nkag lossis mus taug kev, tshem hauv av ntawm txhua yam uas yuav ua rau muaj cov khoom ntiag tug. LaFarge hais tias, "Cov khoom ua si dev zoo ib yam li menyuam cov khoom ua si me me. Tsis muaj qhov sib txawv, tsuas yog ib qho muaj cov khoom squeaker," LaFarge hais. "Tus dev yuav xav tias muaj kev hawv tias cov tsiaj loj no yuav mus txeeb nws cov khoom ua si uas nws nyiam."

Thaum lub tsev tau teeb tsa rau thawj zaug, qhia koj tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv tus ntxhiab. Nqa daim pam lossis tus daig rau tus dev lossis miv hnia, ua rau nws paub, thiab xav paub txog qhov tuaj txog tshiab.

Cia Cov Tsiaj Ua Rau Thawj Qhov

Pib ntawm qhov nruab nrab hauv av: Sab nraum zoo dua yog qhov zoo tshaj, nrog koj tus dev ntawm txoj hlua xaum. Forbes hais tias, "Cov dev nyob sab nraud tsis muaj kev ywj pheej." Yog tias lub rooj sib tham yuav siv sijhawm nyob hauv tsev, nco ntsoov tias koj tus tsiaj tsis thim rov rau kaum tsev.

Tsis txhob tuav tus tsiaj hauv koj txhais tes lossis ntawm koj sab ncej puab, txawm tias nws me me. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau cov txheej txheem tiv thaiv. Hloov chaw, thauj tus me nyuam mus nrog cov dev kho; los yog, pleev nws cov ntiv tes nrog txiv laum huab xeeb thiab cia koj cov tsiaj nyob ze thiab hnia cov khoom txom ncauj.

LaFarge hais tias "Qhov no yuav muab tswv yim rau tus dev tias thaum twg tus me nyuam tsw ntxhiab no nyob ib puag ncig, kuv tau txais ntau cov khoom zoo," LaFarge hais. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus menyuam yuav txaus siab rau tus aub zoo siab. Forbes hais tias, "Nws yuav xav, 'tus aub nyiam kuv!'" "Nov yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los pib."

Niam tais ntsuab Stuart uas yog pog laus ntawm ob tug tub hluas nyob hauv Dallas xeev Texas hais tias, "tus tub xeeb ntxwv uas muaj 2 xyoos tau hem nrog kuv tus paws txheem. Tom qab ntawd, nws hais tias, nws tau ncav tes rau lawv cov tsiaj. Nws lub siab loj zuj zus txog thaum nws npaj siab yuav noj mov rau lawv. "Nws xav tias nws yog txias heev kom lawv coj cov khoom noj ntawm nws txhais tes," nws hais.

Saib Kom Txhim

Qhib rau koj tus dev ua rau koj cov xeeb ntxwv. Yuav luag txhua tus cwj pwm tsis txaus ntseeg muaj feem los ntawm cheeb tsam lossis kev tiv thaiv. Forbes hais tias "Yog tias tus dev tau chim thaum tus menyuam nyob ntawm koj sab ceg, nws tsis yog qhov khib khib ib qho," "Tus dev tseem xav tias, 'Vim li cas tus neeg ntawd zaum ntawm koj? Kuv yuav tsum tau ua tej yam txog nws.'"

Thiab, khaws lub qhov muag tawm rau kev thab. LaFarge hais tias, "tus xeeb ntxwv uas xav paub, ntxim nyiam yuav sim ua tej yam kom mob siab. Nws lees tias "Yuav ua li cas yog tias kuv rub nws tus Tsov tus tw lossis tuav nws lub qhov muag? Nws tsis yog qhov taw qhia tias tus menyuam yuav loj hlob mus ua neeg sociopath," tab sis, nws txhais tau tias tus menyuam yuav tsum tau ncaj qha kho thiab hais, ' Tsis yog, qhov ntawd ua rau tus dev mob kiag. '"

Nws tsis zoo rau koj cov xeeb ntxwv tau kawm tias lawv tuaj yeem nrog cov tsiaj tsiv. "Koj tus dev yuav ua phooj ywg," hais tias LaFarge, "tab sis qee tus aub kuj yuav tsis yog." Raws li Cov Chaw Tiv Thaiv thiab Tiv Thaiv Kab Mob, txhua xyoo 400, 000 tus menyuam hauv Amelikas nrhiav kev kho mob rau tus dev tom. Thiab, tus nqi ntawm kev raug mob-ua rau dev siab tshaj plaws rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog 5 txog 9 xyoo.

Qhia miv, miv… Nees?

Koj tus miv yuav tsim nws lub tswv yim los ntsib koj tus xeeb ntxwv - lossis tsis tau. "Yog tias tus miv tsis nyiam menyuam, tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi uas koj tuaj yeem ua kom nws hloov nws lub siab. Tsuas yog tso lawv cais kom txog thaum tus menyuam muaj kev tswj hwm tus cwj pwm zoo thiab tuaj yeem mus cuag tus miv tau zoo. Tus menyuam yuav tsum tau qhia yuav ua li cas 'nyeem' lossis nkag siab miv lub cev cov lus, "hais LaFarge. Txawm tias thaum miv yuav xav ua ntxaij nrog cov me, yuav tsum ceev faj. Forbes hais tias, "Miv muaj lub zog tsav ua si thiab tus menyuam yaus tuaj yeem sib cav," Forbes hais.

Nws tseem zoo uas yuav tau khaws noog thiab lwm yam tsiaj me nyob rau hauv lawv lub tawb thaum cov xeeb ntxwv tseem dawdling txog lub tsev. Tab sis, thaum koj nyob ib puag ncig, nco ntsoov, cia lawv cuam tshuam nrog txhua yam koj cov tsiaj. Thiab cia lub siab thiab Kodak lub sijhawm pib.

Niam pog yawg, tus yawg Dallas hais tias, "Peb tau tsa tus liab howler uas nws nyiam noj cov khoom qab zib nyuaj." "Thaum nws paub tus menyuam hauv tsev tsis muaj hniav, nws yuav tom me me thiab sim muab nws. Kuv tsis ntseeg nws … txog thaum kuv tus txiv tau yees daim duab."

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