Puas Yog Koj Tus Dev Yog Pessimist Lossis Zoo Dua?

2024 Tus sau: Daisy Haig | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:09

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Puas yog koj tus dev ntim dej ntim ib nrab nyob rau ib nrab lossis ib nrab khoob? Qhov ntawd yuav nyob ntawm nws txoj kev xav.

Raws li kev tshawb fawb los ntawm University of Sydney, cov dev tuaj yeem pom cov cim ntawm kev ua kom zoo lossis pessimists. Melissa Starling nrog USYD tus kws qhia ntawv txog Veterinary Science piav qhia, qhov no yuav mus tau ntev hauv txoj kev pab tib neeg kom to taub tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim sab hauv lub siab ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg lub ntsej muag.

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Los ua qhov kev tshawb fawb, Starling thiab nws pab neeg tau khiav ib pawg ntawm cov dev txawm hais tias kev soj ntsuam kev tsis ncaj ncees seb puas muaj kev ntaus nqi ntau ntawm kev ua tsis zoo lossis tsis zoo. Pab neeg tau qhia ib pawg dev coj los tuav ib lub phiaj uas yuav ua rau dej los yog kua mis ua. Cov suab nrov tshwj xeeb tau muab rau txhua qhov kev txhawb nqa, nrog ib tus raug txuas ua ke rau mis thiab lwm qhov sib luag nrog lub tso tawm dej.

"Lub tshuab ua suab nrov thiab yog tias nws yog suab nrov dej, cov dev tsis kov lub phiaj thiab yog tias nws yog mis nyuj, lawv kov lub hom phiaj thiab tom qab ntawd lawv tau txais qee cov kua mis. Qhov ntawd yog qhov peb hu ua "Mus lossis Tsis Tawm mus", "Starling piav qhia.

Thaum cov dev kawm tau qhov sib txawv ntawm lub mis suab thiab lub suab nrov dua dej, qhov kev kawm tiag tau pib. Starling nws thiaj li muab cov suab nkauj tshiab rau cov dev nyob nruab nrab ntawm ob qho uas lawv tau kawm.

Starling hais tias "Yog li peb tau sim ua yog muab cov cim tsis meej thiab hais tias, 'Lub suab no zoo li mis nyuj tab sis tsis zoo nkaus li mis nyuj yog li koj yuav txhais li cas?'" Starling. “Yog tias lawv xav tias nws zoo li muaj mis txaus, ces lawv kov lub hom phiaj. Thiab yog tias lawv xav tias nws zoo li dej, ces lawv yuav tsis kov nws.”

Starling muaj peev xwm txiav txim siab seb tus dev puas ntau dua ntawm qhov kev xav tau zoo tshaj plaws lossis kev xav phem yog nyob ntawm lawv qhov kev cuam tshuam rau lub suab tsis meej. Nws tau piav qhia "qhov kev nyiam yog thaum lawv txiav txim siab yog tias lub suab tsis meej yog qhov raug dua los yog dej lossis mis," nws piav qhia. Thiab zoo li hom lus teb no sib txawv los ntawm tus dev mus rau aub.

Qee tus dev tau hnov lub suab tsis raug cais thiab khaws cia ntaus lub hom phiaj, txawm tias tom qab txuas ntxiv tas li muaj cov dej tawm, thaum lwm tus tseem cuam tshuam dhau.

“Cov tswv yim zoo ntawm cov dev yuav dhia dhia thiab muab tej yam sim, thaum cov dev uas xav tias luag muaj feem yuav tsis zoo thiab tsis xav yuav txoj hmoo. Lawv tau yaim lawv daim di ncauj, ntsia mus ntawm lub hom phiaj, thiab qee qhov xwm txheej txawm mus pw rau saum lawv lub txaj kom ua rau lawv tsis nkag ntxiv."

Cov kev sim pib nrog 40 tus dev thiab thaum kawg tau ntuav rau 20 qhov uas ua rau nws dhau. Starling hais tias, "Peb tau poob ob peb tug nyob rau txhua theem."

Qee tus aub tsis nyiam mis thiab lwm tus neeg tsis muaj qhov tsis txaus ntseeg kom kawm paub qhov txawv ntawm ob lub tones no. Txoj kev tshawb no tau ua nyob rau hauv puag ncig, nrog rau 6 tus dev mus los ntawm ib lub sijhawm dhau ntawm ob lub lis piam. Thaum kawg ntawm nws qhov kev tshawb fawb, Starling pom rau 6 tus dev yog qhov zoo dua, rau qhov yog tus neeg xav phem, thiab lwm tus tau kis zoo nkauj tusyees thoob plaws lub spectrum.

Ib puag ncig txiav txim siab dev tus Outlook

Starling txoj kev xav yog tias tus dev cov cwm pwm muaj ntau yam ua nrog lawv keeb kwm yav dhau los. Piv txwv, ntawm ob peb tus dev zoo, yog tus tsiaj kws cob qhia.

"Cov dev no tej zaum tau txais kev ua kom zoo nyob hauv tsev nrog kev xyaum nyem thiab ntxiv dag zog," nws hais. Thiab ntau tus neeg xav phem, ntawm qhov tod tes, tau xaum los ntawm kev pabcuam dev cob qhia kev ua haujlwm.

Julie Hecht, tus kws tshawb fawb txog canine thiab Tus Cwj Pwm Tsiaj ntawm PhD kawm tiav ntawm Lub Chaw Kawm Tiav, CUNY, pom zoo nrog txoj kev xav hais tias aub muaj qhov zoo los yog qhov xav kom zoo yuav tsum yog ib puag ncig ntawm ib puag ncig.

Hecht hais tias, "Yog tias koj yog tus dev nyob hauv lub tsev menyuam dev, piv txwv li, koj tau muaj lub neej zoo nkauj zoo nkauj thiab yuav hais tawm qhov kev xav zoo dua, tab sis tsis tau txhais tau tias koj tsis yog tus neeg tsis zoo," hais tias Hecht. "Yog tias koj tsiv mus nyob hauv ib puag ncig sib txawv, tom qab ntawd koj paub tias tib neeg muaj kev nyab xeeb, neeg zoo siab, thiab koj tuaj yeem hloov pauv koj li kev xav."

Pessimistic thiab Raug Qhov Txiag Zoo Aub

Txawm hais tias Starling qhov kev tshawb pom tseem yog lub sijhawm pib, nws muaj peev xwm txiav tawm cov lus piav qhia txog ntawm tus yam ntxwv uas nws pom tau muaj nyob rau hauv ob qho tib si pessimistic thiab optimistic dev. Nws kuj tau sau qee cov lus qhia rau cov tswv dev paub tias qhov kev paub no tuaj yeem muaj txiaj ntsig lawv li cas:

Cov sijhawm zoo ntawm tus dev zoo: Nws hais tias, “Yog tias kuv pom tus dev uas tawm mus tiag tiag thiab nyiam thoob ntiaj teb - tshawb nrhiav ntau yam, nrhiav txiaj ntsig nyob txhua qhov chaw, thiab muaj cib fim ntau heev - Kuv yuav xav txog tus dev ntawd yog ib qho zoo rau tus dev,” nws piav qhia. "Pheej yeej tuaj rau hauv nws ib yam nkaus thiab vim tias cov dev uas xav kom zoo zoo tsuas yog ua kom zoo, uas yog qhov zoo thaum koj nyem qhov kev cob qhia dev vim tias lawv yuav khaws nrog yam tshiab thiab lawv tsis tshua txhawj tias lawv yuav tsis tau txais nyem. Nws kuj txhais tau tias tom qab, txawm li cas los xij, thaum koj nias lub khawm, lawv tseem tab tom yos hav zoov rau txhua yam kom ua thiab tseem sim ua lwm yam."

Cwj pwm ntawm pessimistic dev: "Thiab ntawm lwm cov nplai, yog tias peb tab tom saib tus dev uas muaj kev pheej hmoo ntau dua - nws tsis nyiam txoj kev pheej hmoo, nws tsis nyiam mus deb ntawm nws tus tswv thaum nws tawm nrog lawv, tej zaum nws yog me ntsis ntsis sedate tej zaum, thiab nws yuav siv sijhawm me ntsis kom nws mus sim yam tshiab - qhov ntawd yog yam kuv koom nrog tus dev uas zoo. Thiab zoo ib yam li hauv kev sim, qhov no tuaj yeem tshwm sim hauv kev qhia. Yog tias lawv tsis tau txais tus nqi zog zoo siab thiab yog qhov ua tiav tiag tiag, lawv yuav tuaj yeem tshwj xeeb thiab poob siab yooj yim."

Peb Kawm Tau Dab Tsi?

Raws li Starling, kev muaj peev xwm txheeb xyuas tus dev ua pessimistic lossis optimistic tuaj yeem pab tib neeg ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov tsiaj los ntawm kev paub tseeb tias dev sib txawv xav tau ntau hom kev txhawb nqa.

Yog tias koj xav tias koj muaj qhov pheej hmoo tsis zoo, pessimistic aub, piv txwv li, Starling xav kom koj ua siab ntev rau nws.

Nws tau piav tias "Tej zaum lawv yuav xav tau kev txhawb nqa me ntsis dua lwm tus dev thiab kev tuav ntawm tes me ntsis." "Cov dev no xav kom koj muab lawv cov tswv yim ntau thiab ntxiv qhov cuab lub zog."

Cov tswv ntawm kev xav zoo rau cov dev, ntawm qhov tod tes, raug yaum kom nrhiav txoj hauv kev kom lawv cov menyuam dev ntawm kev txhawb nqa lawv tus kheej.

"Nws yog hais txog kev tswj hwm lawv ib puag ncig kom paub tseeb tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem tsim kev puas tsuaj, nco ntsoov tias lawv nrhiav tsis tau khoom ntawm cov rooj kas fes thiab nyob saum cov txee," hais tias Starling. "Koj yuav tsum xyuas kom koj tsis txhob tso lawv tawm hauv lub voids uas lawv tuaj yeem ua txhua yam lawv xav tau vim tias koj tsis tau hais qhia rau lawv tias koj xav kom lawv ua dab tsi."

Qhov kev tshawb fawb no tsuas yog qhov tseeb rau ntawm Starling. Mus rau tom ntej, nws yuav nyiam ua kom muaj peev xwm txhim kho cov kev ntsuas pom tseeb uas tib neeg tuaj yeem khiav ntawm lawv cov dev txhawm rau txhawm rau paub lawv lub siab lub ntsws. Txoj kev paub no tsis tuaj yeem tsuas yog ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov dev thiab tus tswv, tab sis kuj tseem yuav pab nrog xaiv tus dev rau qee txoj haujlwm. Pess zoo tshaj tus dev, piv txwv li, tej zaum yuav ua rau tus dev pabcuam zoo dua.

Nws hais tias, "Cov dev no tau teb nrawm dua los kho tus cwj pwm tsis raug thiab tsis tawm hauv lub ntiaj teb xav tias txhua yam yog muaj cib fim, zoo li cov dev pom zoo," Thiab yog tias koj tab tom nrhiav tus phooj ywg aub los sib tw hauv kev ua si, yog qhov chaw uas muaj tus dev zoo uas xav ua txhua yam yuav tshwm sim.

Dab tsi tib neeg tuaj yeem coj deb ntawm txoj kev tshawb nrhiav, hais tias Hecht, yog qhov tseeb tias dev yog kev xav thiab muaj qhov sib txawv hauv lawv saib qhov kev xav hauv lawv cheeb tsam li cas.

"Qhov no tsuas yog lwm txoj haujlwm los tshuaj xyuas seb cov dev saib lub ntiaj teb, nyob ntawm tus kheej," nws hais.